Humans tend to make mistakes, so you have to learn to forgive yourself for them.
Be kinder to yourself: you cannot predict the evolution of any events, always keep everything under control and be responsible for the reactions of other people.
So just let yourself make mistakes and convert them into valuable life experiences. Your desires and needs matter a great deal.
When you relegate them to the back burner, focusing only on the happiness of others, you hurt yourself. Say: I'm doing it for myself!
I'm doing it for myself!
Even if we sacrifice ourselves for another person, for the sake of maintaining a strange, painful relationship, we do exactly what we want to do, and only for ourselves.
Because we care about that person.
Because we need the relationship.
This is how we express love for ourselves, and we do it in the best way we can in each
situation. So no matter what we do, we show our love for ourselves.
In the best way, we can, always. As long as we remember that we are doing it out of love for ourselves, we are happy. As long as we think we are doing it out of a sense of duty, we are unhappy. The action itself does not change.
No matter what unfortunate situations we find ourselves in, our actions are the best way
we can currently show our love for ourselves. Realize this, and any trauma in your life becomes an experience and a resource.
Another proof of your love. Do your job to the best of your ability. If you want to accomplish anything in life, you're going to have to work hard.
As Napoleon Hill said:
"The starting point of all success is desire."
Of course, there are rare exceptions, but don't rely on them. Rely on yourself. Every action you take, even excruciating self-sacrifice, has a specific recipient, and that is always yourself.
You are the one person you can always count on.
Say to yourself:
I WILL REACH MY GOAL!
I TRUST MYSELF!
I HAVE BEEN DOING IT FOR ME!
Don't try to deceive yourself about any situation in life. It is better to hear an unpleasant answer to an important question in time and take action than to let yourself live in self-deception for many years.
Do not ignore your every achievement, even if it seems insignificant at first glance. Such self-respect will play into your hands many times in the future.
Even if your ideas seem to you stupid or ill-conceived, do not be in a hurry to reject them. Sometimes in order to come up with and do something cool, you have to give yourself and your ideas a chance.
The most rubbish idea can lead you to success if you believe in it and take it seriously. Most people tend to look for some negative qualities in themselves.
Be smarter: look for the good in yourself to boost your self-esteem and gain confidence. Just as a fish can't live without water, a person can't live without a goal - he will "exist" rather than live.
Note your positive qualities and good deeds, and try to analyze your thoughts and behavior
more often and do not dwell on the shortcomings.
Humans tend to make mistakes, so you have to learn to forgive yourself.
Thanks reading and stay blessed!

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